I always thought taking the first step and getting the divorce and being single would solve alot of issues. I have found that it is scary and indifferent to be out there by yourself. I guess I always though of myself as alone because my ex was not a “participator”. HOWEVER, there is some comfort to having someone there.
This is NOT what I want. I want a partner for life!!! Help me through your experience and tell me how to attract that please.
Single Mother Syndrome,
Georgia
Dear Mojo Mother,
Attracting a new mate has many facets. The first is to get real with yourself and “clean up” any disturbances you may have in your life that may be blocking your window of opportunity. One of the most important principles or “mojo jewels” is to be “base”. It seems your base or foundation may be shaky and looking to others for some stabilization is just not how it works my dear. You must find strength, balance and a sincere foundation within yourself before you can pass go!
Begin the mojo makeover from the inside out immediately. Purge out the old will allow new energy to engulf you. This is a process that requires a great deal of conscience thoughts and smart choices. Are you worth it? Are your children worth you being a strong base so that they can grow into capable mojo sisters?
The choice is yours but you are begging for a companion that will never fill that void. Try this ritual: it works if you put your heart in it! Dig deep within yourself to identify old habits, people and memories that are haunting you. Write each one on a sheet of paper then burn them in a fireplace one by one to let go and “purge”!
Then you can share the whole you open and ready for someone to “enhance” your life not drain it!. Keep me posted and email me for mojo coaching!
All my best,
Dear Mojo
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